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Frequently Asked Questions

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What exactly is My Confident Son?

It’s a digital guide (PDF) designed for parents of boys who shut down, withdraw, or struggle with big emotions. It gives you practical scripts, tools, and rituals to help him feel safe enough to talk—without forcing uncomfortable big talks.

Is a physical book available for purchase?

No, this a digital product. This way you can access it immediately and print only what you need. We do understand the desire of some parents wanting a physical book, so we will be looking to create a physical book in the future.

How long does it take to see results?

Many parents see small wins within a day or two using the quick-start tools, but building trust is an ongoing journey. You can expect to give it at least one month before you see any noticeable changes.

Is this just for boys?

While it’s designed with boys in mind—because they often shut down differently than girls—the tools and scripts can absolutely help any child who struggles to talk about their feelings.

What age range is this guide best for?

My Confident Son is designed for parents of boys roughly 11–19 years old—especially pre-teens and teens who are starting to shut down, withdraw, or struggle to talk about what they’re feeling. The strategies are flexible and can be adapted for your child’s age and maturity.

My son won’t talk to me at all. Will this even help?

Yes for sure—this is exactly why I wrote it. This guide isn’t about forcing big “heart-to-hearts.” It’s about building safety in small, everyday moments, so he wants to talk when he’s ready. Even if he’s silent now, you can help him feel seen and understood without pushing him away.

Is this a replacement for therapy?

No. My Confident Son is not therapy, and it’s not meant to replace professional help if that’s needed. It’s a supportive guide for parents who want practical tools to reduce conflict, improve connection, and help their son feel safer talking about tough feelings.

What if I mess up or say the wrong thing?

That’s normal—we all do. That’s why the guide includes Emotional Repair Scripts to help you know what to say when you’ve lost your cool or made things worse. This is about progress, not perfection.

How do I get access to everything?

After you order, you’ll get instant digital access to the full My Confident Son guide plus all 6 printable bonus tools (which which will be linked inside the guide for easy-access). You can download them right away and start using them today.

What if it doesn’t work for me?

Unfortunately, in the world we live in, not everything works for everyone. That's why there's a 30-Day Money-Back Guarantee. If you don’t feel more prepared to connect calmly and confidently with your son, just email us for a full refund—no questions asked. Your peace of mind matters as much as his.

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The Mission of the Book

I created My Confident Son because I know what it feels like to be that boy who shuts down, overthinks, and hides behind “I’m fine.” The guide is the one I wish my parents had—so you can help your son feel safe, seen, and understood.

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